{"id":7193,"date":"2023-01-11T16:26:39","date_gmt":"2023-01-11T16:26:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/zangzendo.com\/?p=7193"},"modified":"2023-01-11T16:26:45","modified_gmt":"2023-01-11T16:26:45","slug":"the-signs-of-a-toxic-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zangzendo.com\/the-signs-of-a-toxic-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"The sign&#8217;s of a toxic relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>The more emotionally invested you are in your relationship, the higher the potential for trauma. No two people are the same, and relationships evolve over time. When you\u2019re in an emotionally draining relationship, it\u2019s easy to wonder if there is any way out. If you\u2019re being bombarded with messages of love and adoration all day long, it can feel like there\u2019s no end to how much support you can get. The solution seems to be simple: quit! An unhealthy relationship isn\u2019t one that can be cured using pharmaceuticals or psychological tricks; it\u2019s a fact that some relationships can only become healthier over time. The signs of a toxic relationship are just some of the red flags that should let you know if your partner is comfortable with their actions or not.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_60 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title \" >Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\" role=\"button\"><label for=\"item-678b5030c5bf7\" ><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input aria-label=\"Toggle\" aria-label=\"item-678b5030c5bf7\"  type=\"checkbox\" id=\"item-678b5030c5bf7\"><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-1'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/zangzendo.com\/the-signs-of-a-toxic-relationship\/#They_constantly_tell_you_that_they_love_you\" title=\"They constantly tell you that they love you.\">They constantly tell you that they love you.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-1'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/zangzendo.com\/the-signs-of-a-toxic-relationship\/#Theyre_obsessed_with_your_body\" title=\"They\u2019re obsessed with your body.\">They\u2019re obsessed with your body.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-1'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/zangzendo.com\/the-signs-of-a-toxic-relationship\/#They_make_emotional_and_physical_attacks_on_your_free_time\" title=\"They make emotional and physical attacks on your free time.\">They make emotional and physical attacks on your free time.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-1'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/zangzendo.com\/the-signs-of-a-toxic-relationship\/#The_relationship_is_secretive_and_withdrawn\" title=\"The relationship is secretive and withdrawn.\">The relationship is secretive and withdrawn.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-1'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/zangzendo.com\/the-signs-of-a-toxic-relationship\/#The_relationship_is_Contingent_and_Burdensome\" title=\"The relationship is Contingent and Burdensome.\">The relationship is Contingent and Burdensome.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-1'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/zangzendo.com\/the-signs-of-a-toxic-relationship\/#The_Partner_Doesnt_Take_Care_of_Other_Peoples_Bodies\" title=\"The Partner Doesn&#8217;t Take Care of Other People&#8217;s Bodies.\">The Partner Doesn&#8217;t Take Care of Other People&#8217;s Bodies.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-1'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/zangzendo.com\/the-signs-of-a-toxic-relationship\/#The_Relationship_is_Contingent_and_Burdensome\" title=\"The Relationship is Contingent and Burdensome.\">The Relationship is Contingent and Burdensome.<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"They_constantly_tell_you_that_they_love_you\"><\/span>They constantly tell you that they love you.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h1>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/images.pexels.com\/photos\/7579120\/pexels-photo-7579120.jpeg?auto=compress&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;w=1260&amp;h=750&amp;dpr=1\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>This means that they\u2019re in love with you, but also that they don\u2019t love themselves. They may say this to keep you from getting in touch with your authentic Self. To avoid feeling like a fraud, it\u2019s important to realize that people in love don\u2019t have to feel or look like they\u2019re claiming to be a better version of themselves. If you\u2019re constantly being bombarded with messages of love and adoration, it can feel like there\u2019s no end to how much support you can get. The solution is simple: quit! An unhealthy relationship isn\u2019t one that can be cured using pharmaceuticals or psychological tricks; it\u2019s a fact that some relationships can become healthier over time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Theyre_obsessed_with_your_body\"><\/span>They\u2019re obsessed with your body.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p>Obesity and metabolic diseases are closely related, and one of the most significant causes of both is over indulging your needs. If you\u2019re constantly being bombarded with messages of love and adoration, it can feel like there\u2019s no end to how much support you can get. The solution is simple: quit! An unhealthy relationship isn\u2019t one that can be cured using pharmaceuticals or psychological tricks; it\u2019s a fact that some relationships can become healthier over time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"They_make_emotional_and_physical_attacks_on_your_free_time\"><\/span>They make emotional and physical attacks on your free time.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h1>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/images.pexels.com\/photos\/7579115\/pexels-photo-7579115.jpeg?auto=compress&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;w=1260&amp;h=750&amp;dpr=1\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>The more invested you are in your relationship, the higher the potential for trauma. No two people are the same, and relationships evolve over time. When you\u2019re in an emotionally draining relationship, it\u2019s easy to wonder if there is any way out. If you\u2019re constantly being bombarded with messages of love and adoration, it can feel like there\u2019s no end to how much support you can get. The solution is simple: quit! An unhealthy relationship isn\u2019t one that can be cured using pharmaceuticals or psychological tricks; it\u2019s a fact that some relationships can become healthier over time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_relationship_is_secretive_and_withdrawn\"><\/span>The relationship is secretive and withdrawn.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p>The more withdrawn you are from social interactions, the more likely you are to experience Developmental Disruptive Disorder (DDD). This condition is characterized by mood fluctuations and inattention, as well as anxiety. When you\u2019re in a relationship that\u2019s secret or withdrawn, it can feel like there\u2019s no way out. It doesn\u2019t matter how good the relationship is\u2014if you\u2019re not taking any steps to show up for your partner, they may not show up for you. The solution is simple: take some steps! Your partner may not know that you exist; they may not be able to tell by themselves. If you need support in any form, you can always call a professional.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_relationship_is_Contingent_and_Burdensome\"><\/span>The relationship is Contingent and Burdensome.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h1>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/images.pexels.com\/photos\/7579179\/pexels-photo-7579179.jpeg?auto=compress&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;w=1260&amp;h=750&amp;dpr=1\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>The more dependent you are on the partner, the more likely it is that the relationship will be volatile. This is a very real danger sign. If your partner is always doing something that needs to be done, or if things are going through some major change, it can feel like there\u2019s nowhere to go but back. The solution is simple: take some steps! Your partner may not know that you exist; they may not be able to tell by themselves. If you need support in any form, you can always call a professional.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Partner_Doesnt_Take_Care_of_Other_Peoples_Bodies\"><\/span>The Partner Doesn&#8217;t Take Care of Other People&#8217;s Bodies.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h1>\n\n\n\n<p>The more dependent you are on the partner, the more likely it is that the relationship will be volatile. This is a very real danger sign. If your partner is always doing something that needs to be done, or if things are going through some major change, it can feel like there&#8217;s nowhere to go but back. The solution is simple: take some steps! Your partner may not know that you exist; they may not be able to tell by themselves. If you need support in any form, you can always call a professional.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h1 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Relationship_is_Contingent_and_Burdensome\"><\/span>The Relationship is Contingent and Burdensome.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h1>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/images.pexels.com\/photos\/7579105\/pexels-photo-7579105.jpeg?auto=compress&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;w=1260&amp;h=750&amp;dpr=1\" alt=\"\"\/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>The more dependent you are on the partner, the more likely it is that the relationship will be volatile. This is a very real danger sign. If you\u2019re always doing something that needs to be done, or if things are going through some major change, it can feel like there\u2019s nowhere to go but back. The solution is simple: take some steps! Your partner may not know that you exist; they may not be able to tell by themselves. If you need support in any form, you can always call a professional.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The more emotionally invested you are in your relationship, the higher the potential for trauma. No two people are the same, and relationships evolve over time. When you\u2019re in an emotionally draining relationship, it\u2019s easy to wonder if there is any way out. If you\u2019re being bombarded with messages of love and adoration all day<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":7194,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-7193","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-relationships"},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zangzendo.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7193","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zangzendo.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zangzendo.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zangzendo.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zangzendo.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7193"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/zangzendo.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7193\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7195,"href":"https:\/\/zangzendo.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7193\/revisions\/7195"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zangzendo.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/7194"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zangzendo.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7193"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zangzendo.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7193"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zangzendo.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7193"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}